When I started planning content for pride month, the first subject that popped into my mind was the biphobia and bi erasure within the LGBTQ+ community, and how being a bisexual woman in a relationship with a man often makes me feel excluded. At first, I wasn’t sure if it was a good idea writing about this, as it’s not the happiest topic. It’s the first year I’m officially out to everyone around me so I wanted this pride month to be all about celebrating my own sexuality. But it’s hard to accept your own sexuality, let alone come out to others or celebrate it, when a big part of the community makes you feel unwelcome, questions your sexuality and debates if it even exists.
Being bisexual and open about it has been a weird ride so far. Generally, people are very supportive and understanding. But I’ve also faced a lot of criticism, misconceptions, and hate, coming from both straight people and the LGBTQ+ community. These are the 30 most annoying things with regards to my sexuality I have to deal with on a regular basis.
There have been some issues regarding my sexuality and gender I’ve been wanting to blog about for a while now, but I only just found the courage and words to do so. It’s a hard subject to talk about, because it’s something very personal, and because not everyone will or can understand it, try to understand it or accept it. But my sexuality and gender are part of who I am, and something I cannot change, so it’s important to me to change that piece of me with the rest of the world.
Today’s post is a very personal one, I’m coming out. I’m bisexual. I’m into both men and women. The people closest to me have known for a while. But I never came out, not officially, not publicly. Not until now.
I knew that I wasn’t heterosexual from a very young age but only came to terms with my bisexuality within the past few years. When I was 9 or 10 years old and people around me started to get interested in the opposite sex, I noticed I was different. I wrote about it in my diary, back then.